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Life

Gift – Accept or Decline

By | ABNLP, Action, BreakThrough, Change, Happiness, Life, Love, Self Love, Self-improvement

It is said that on one occasion when a wise man was teaching a group of people, he found himself on the receiving end of a fierce outburst of abuse from a bystander, who was for some reason very angry.

The wise man listened patiently while the stranger vented his rage, and then he said to the group and to the stranger, “If someone gives a gift to another person, who then chooses to decline it, tell me, who would then own the gift? The giver or the person who refuses to accept the gift?”

“The giver,” said the group after a little thought.

“Any fool can see that,” added the angry stranger.

“Then it follows, does it not,” said the wise man, “whenever a person tries to abuse us, or to unload their anger on us, we can each choose to decline or to accept the abuse; whether to make it ours or not.

‘By our personal response to the abuse from another, we can choose who owns and keeps the bad feelings.”

 

You free to choose, but the choices you make today will determine what you have, be, and do in the tomorrow of your life.”

— Zig Ziglar

 

In life, we decide whether we want to receive and keep “gifts” or reject and let go of them when we acquire them from others. Gifts can be either momentary or lasting are genuinely given to us to make us feel happy, appreciated and loved besides developing our self-esteem and confidence.

However, there are gifts positioned to us that create feelings of anger, sadness, guilt, regret inside of us which will affect us to be more unenthusiastic in our behaviour and have pessimistic mentality.

 

Do you find that perhaps you have been receiving all ‘gifts’ without thinking or considering of the consequences it will have on you and that you have to receive them no matter what?

Do you project negativity as a result of accumulating it over the years, and if so, isn’t it the time to let it go? After all, without letting go these harmful negativities, how can we be open to receive positivity?

Would you like to be able to let go of these ‘bad gifts’and get to hand-picked your own gifts and take back control of your life and designed it the way you want?

 

If your answer to any of the above is yes, it is time to change. Time to make new patterns and experimenting various options that will make a difference in your life. It is the time for you to join us and discover who is it you want to be and what is stopping you from being just that. Contact us to know more.

 

 Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over.
—Guy Finley

Are you Perfect or Imperfect? Personal Sharing of Jessica (25 years old)

By | ABNLP, Change, Coaching, Happiness, Inspiration, Life, Live by Design, Personal Growth, Purpose

“Life is like a camera,

Focus on what’s important,

Capture the good times,

Develop from the negatives

And if things don’t work out,

Take another shot.

 

This quote perfectly sums up my LBD (Live By Design) journey organized by Billy Kueek International (BKI). LBD is short for Live By Design and not by default. It demonstrated to me how to live my life according to my own principles and own values, and not according to other people’s expectations. In our society or culture, there are no shortages of cases where people, friends and family members “recommend” how we should live our life, what job we should pursue, what course we should study, what to eat… and the list goes on. I am pretty sure all of us to do it – whether consciously or unconsciously – and I have had my fair share of being on the receiving end of these incidences as well while growing up.

Why did you joined this program? 

I became obsessed with how other people viewed me, or what they thought of me, and hence I became pessimistic. Anger, irritation and negative thoughts were my best friends. I became withdrawn, fearful of talking to people or strangers – fearful of them judging me and my appearance. Parties and social gatherings was always making me panic as I was thinking about: “What if someone starts talking to me, and then start comparing me with my sibling (twin sister)?”

What is the program about? 

LBD program, it is an 9-day certification program that incorporates Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy™ (TLT), Hypnotherapy and NLP Coaching. It equips you with the knowledge and skills to resolve personal blockages, remove limiting beliefs and negative baggage and be able to Live life By Design.

How did the program helped you?

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Willingness to Learn, Act and Share

By | Action, Change, Inspiration, Life, Motivation, Personal Development, Purpose, Quotes, Self-improvement

What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life – Leo Buscaglia

 Your Willingness to Learn

How’s your willingness to learn more about improving your life and making it better? What are you currently doing to enhance your life? It is never easy to acknowledge that life could be not going the way you want it to be or that you’re stuck not knowing what to do. Pride and ego are something people hold on to defend their current situation, to avoid shame and people look down on them.

They are not willing to release these emotional clutches. They fear they will become someone they are not and will lose control of their life. Hence, how susceptible and accepting you are to change and ready to take the first step in learning? If you are willing to be a self-learner, ultimately you are developing yourself. The truth is, if you fear change, then there is no point in investing in growing, enhancing and enriching your life isn’t it?

Think about this. Wouldn’t it be silly for a person who wants a healthy body but refused to invest in healthy diets and regular exercises?

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